A Little Bit Feminist?

Gaga has changed her feelings about the word, now claiming she is "a little bit of a feminist."

Singer Nicki Minaj and comedians Tina Fey, Amy Poehler, and Lena Dunham have spoken more positively about the idea. Dunham told UK Metro Daily, "Women saying ‘I’m not a feminist’ is my greatest pet peeve... Do you believe that women should be allowed to leave the house? Do you think that women and men both deserve equal rights? Great, then you’re a feminist." And Minaj has renamed the type of feminism to which she ascribes.  It's called "girl power." Full article.

Singing Unsung Motherhood and Find A Mom Who Rocks!

Whenever I see a family portrait, I feel like I should stop and offer up a moment of silence for all the work that SOMEbody, most likely the mom, had to do to get all those people together looking that good in one place without stains or tears marring the clothing or tearful or pouting faces revealing the stress that everyone lived through in the moments before the camera clicked.  I almost never think of the people in the picture.

I think of the mothers’ labor in the hour or so before the picture.  I think of the sibling fighting, perhaps the other parents’ uselessness in resolving that conflict, somebody’s frustration at what they have to wear for the photo, somebody’s hair which, moments ago looked great but now looks like they haven’t washed it in a year much less combed it, the mother’s desire to have the family pull together just for a moment so that the pic represents the family as a cohesive unit rather than as gathering of disconnected and disgruntled parts.  When I look at these portraits from my childhood as well as of my own children and family, I note the stress of photo day, particularly of the parent arranging it.  I think about the unsung labor of that person, and how such labor flies beneath the radar of how we understand family life.....MORE

*Special note: If you are interested in finding out about Moms who sing and Moms who rock check out Mamapalooza where songs range from topics like domestic drudgery to lullabies. Joy Rose and her band Housewives On Prozac started it all in 1997 with tunes like 'Eat Your Damn Spaghetti'.